Diona The Trainer

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Selective
Hearing

For owners on their second or third trainer who can feel there's something underneath all this nobody has yet put their finger on. This guide names it.

✓ Eight chapters ✓ Why your dog is closer to a toddler than a colleague ✓ The two diagnoses that move more dogs than any training does ✓ The five needs underneath every behaviour ✓ Five concrete lens shifts you can use tomorrow morning

Diona The Trainer

Selective Hearing

Why your dog isn't misbehaving. They're unfulfilled.

Diona Chu

BVSc · MEd · Melbourne

If you've tried everything, this is what you haven't tried yet.

You've worked with a trainer. Maybe two. You've watched the videos, bought the tools, done the classes. The dog is still mouthy when visitors arrive. Still pulling on the lead. Still reactive to the dog across the road that the last trainer told you wouldn't be an issue by now. You've started planning your day around not putting them in situations they can't handle.

It isn't your dog. It isn't you either. It's the frame. Every method you've tried has aimed at the behaviour. None of them have stopped to ask whether the behaviour was the right target.

Most dogs I see haven't been trained badly. They've been read wrong. They're under-rested. They have too much freedom for the brain they've got. They're being asked to perform when there's nothing left in the tank. No method on earth fixes that, because the problem isn't method. It's diagnosis.

This guide is the diagnostic. Eight chapters. The conversation I have in the first ten minutes of every session, written down so you can have it with yourself first, in your own kitchen, for $10.

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What's in the guide

Chapter 1

Selective hearing

Why "he knows better" smuggles in two assumptions that fall apart on inspection.

Chapter 2

Why we got the frame wrong

Obedience training inherited the wrong template from the working-dog world. What we lost in the translation.

Chapter 3

A toddler, not a colleague

The core analogy. The waterline image. Capacity before cue, state before behaviour.

Chapter 4

The overtired dog

The single most common diagnosis across every age and breed. The wired-tired tell most owners misread.

Chapter 5

Too much freedom, too soon

Why the loving thing isn't the kind thing. Why structure precedes freedom, every time.

Chapter 6

The needs underneath the behaviour

Five needs to balance across a week. The behaviour is smoke; these are the fire.

Chapter 7

What this changes tomorrow morning

Five concrete lens shifts you can use at breakfast. Not protocols. Just better questions.

Chapter 8

Where this leads

PACE in brief. Three places to go if you want to take the reframe further.

Who this is for

Owners who have stopped inviting friends over because they're tired of apologising for the dog at the door.

Owners on their second or third trainer. The reframe gives you a lens for why nothing has stuck.

Owners with a teenage dog they don't quite recognise anymore. The puppy was easy. This is not.

Owners about to bring a puppy home, who would rather start with the right frame than unlearn the wrong one later.

Questions people ask

Is this a training program?

No. It's the reframe that comes before training. There are no protocols, no checklists, no "do this for ten minutes a day." It's the lens that makes everything else work.

How is the guide delivered?

Instant PDF download after Stripe checkout, plus an email copy of the download link.

Does this replace a private session?

No. Owners who arrive at a session having read the guide ask better questions, so the session goes deeper. The reframe is the foundation; the session is the work on top of it.

Is there GST on the price?

Yes. $10 AUD inclusive of 10% GST. A tax invoice is automatically emailed with your receipt.

Can I get a refund?

Digital products aren't typically refundable once downloaded, but if the guide genuinely didn't fit your situation, email happydogs@dionathetrainer.com and tell me what didn't land.

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Diona Chu, dog trainer Melbourne

About Diona

I'm a Melbourne-based dog trainer with a degree in veterinary science, a Masters in Early Childhood Education, and fifteen years across zoo, wildlife, and private dog training. My assistance dog Murphy and I work with clients across Melbourne and online.

I wrote this guide because the same conversation keeps happening in the first ten minutes of every session. This is that conversation, in writing, so owners can have it with themselves before they come to me.