# Fear-based reactivity: what it looks like and why it needs a different approach | Diona The Trainer

Bodhi the Spoodle couldn't make it to the corner without being spooked. How fear-based reactivity differs from offensive reactivity, and what changed in four sessions with Melbourne dog trainer Diona Chu in Yarraville.

By Diona Chu · 7 minute read

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Angela brought Bodhi to Diona because she could barely get past the corner. Bodhi is a five-year-old Spoodle from Yarraville. Ten minutes was about as far as they could go before he was spooked by something: wind, a banging door, a dog appearing too fast from behind a parked car. He would bark and pull backward. Angela had spent years shrinking their world down to routes where less might happen.

That is not an aggressive dog. That is a scared one. The distinction changes almost everything about how you work with the dog.

## The tail tells you which kind of reactive you're dealing with

An offensive reactive dog makes itself big: tail up, chest forward, weight on the front feet, ears hard forward. The bark is directed and sustained. This dog is asserting something.

A fear-reactive dog makes itself small: tail low or tucked, body weight back, eyes wide and darting. The bark is there, but it comes with backward movement and looking for an exit. Bodhi would bark with his tail down and try to put space between himself and the trigger.

If Bodhi barked and his tail was low, Diona would not correct him for the bark. That bark was processing something uncertain. Correcting uncertainty barking tells the dog to suppress the signal, not deal with the fear. The tail going up, the chest coming forward, the body hardening into offensive territory: that is when correction is appropriate.

## What raises a fearful dog's waterline faster than anything

Bodhi's baseline arousal was high before they had left the street. He spent a lot of time scanning his environment. Wind added to it. Rainy days were harder. Late afternoon was harder than morning.

The walks themselves had been raising his baseline for years. Angela had been taking him to environments she thought would help him. The intention was right, but the execution was pitched above what his nervous system could absorb. He arrived home with more in his tank than he had left with. Over months, the baseline had crept up to the point where almost anything could push him over.

Decompression was the word Diona kept returning to. After any effort, Bodhi needed time to fully come back down before anything else asked something of him. Not every session is a progress session. Sometimes ending with him more settled than he arrived is the best result.

## Advocating for a dog who cannot advocate for himself

Angela was scanning everything first, tensing before Bodhi reacted, trying to pre-empt the stimulus. He read that tension as confirmation that there was something worth worrying about.

The work was partly about Angela holding a calmer posture. And partly about her learning to physically advocate for him when they encountered another dog: position herself between Bodhi and the trigger, a bicep-curl hold so the lead was steady without jerking, letting him know through her body that she had it and he did not need to be on the front line.

Diona used Murphy, her Labrador and certified assistance dog, in Bodhi's sessions. Murphy has body language that fear-reactive dogs read as non-threatening: low tail when relaxed, no hard stare, slow movements. Angela watched how Bodhi processed a calm presence versus an intense one.

## What changed in four sessions

By the end of the program, Angela wrote: "Bodhi now trusts that I've got him, and that's changed everything for us. I finally have a walking buddy."

That was not a dog who had stopped noticing triggers. He still noticed. What changed was the speed of recovery and the gap before the reaction. Where ten minutes had been the ceiling, they were walking for thirty minutes or more.

The session where Diona saw the biggest shift: they walked past the house with the dog that had always set Bodhi off. He glanced at it. Angela kept walking at an even pace. He followed her. He was already disengaged, sniffing the grass three steps past the house.

Not the absence of fear. The presence of trust.

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